{"id":229055,"date":"2021-07-06T22:05:23","date_gmt":"2021-07-06T20:05:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/?p=229055"},"modified":"2024-01-29T14:05:22","modified_gmt":"2024-01-29T14:05:22","slug":"routine-for-multipotentials-for-the-ones-who-do-not-like-routine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/routine-for-multipotentials-for-the-ones-who-do-not-like-routine\/","title":{"rendered":"Routine for multipotentials \u2013 For the ones who do NOT like routine"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"229055\" class=\"elementor elementor-229055\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-312eaf80 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"312eaf80\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;ekit_has_onepagescroll_dot&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-652da165\" data-id=\"652da165\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-653faefb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"653faefb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>About routine and habits<\/strong>\r\n\r\nFrom all my readings, it appears that creating new and \u00ab good \u00bb habits help achieve our objectives. Everyday is a little step to achieve result at the end of the path.\r\n\r\nIt is about clarifying our objectives, establishing a status of our bad habits \u2013 or the ones not good at long term\u00a0! (for instance go to bed very late, eat only chocolate\u2026), to replace them by \u00ab\u00a0sane\u00a0and productive\u00a0\u00bb habits (to wake up at 6 am, meditate, write 10 pages in automatic mode, caress your cat, drink a coffee\u2026)\r\n\r\nI do not know for you, for me hearing the word \u00ab\u00a0routine\u00a0\u00bb makes me shiver, cry, I am afraid of it, it represents a threat to my mental and physical health\u00a0!\r\n\r\n<strong>Routine and multipotentials<\/strong>\r\n\r\nRoutine seems the opposite to my multipotential needs, diversity, joy, change, creativity\u2026.It represents the end of freedom, the top achievement for some\u2026but not mine. May I confess I wish I would be like the \u00ab\u00a0organized-tribe\u00a0\u00bb, they seem so happy and productive\u2026\r\n\r\nPlease let me chose, let me procrastinate when I wish, let me express my multipotential identity, free and without routine\u00a0!\r\n\r\nAnd\u2026\r\n\r\nLife catches me back, experience speaks\u00a0: I need to agree, to achieve an objective, plan and actions are great tools, as well as setting up some habits\u2026You understood the handicap to start with, so, what to do\u00a0?\r\n\r\n<strong>My advice for multipotentials<\/strong>\r\n\r\nIt is about to set up something that works for YOU. Hopefully cleaning teeth and taking showers became automatisms. What coud you put in automatic pilot to gain time, productivity and help you progress (slowly and surely) to your life objectives, whether they are small or big\u00a0? First, take the time to get to know yourself, to tame yourself. Your needs, your values, your objectives, what works for you and what does not work.\r\n<ol>\r\n \t<li>Identify <strong>what is important for you at mid-term<\/strong>, chose a limited number of obectives and link some key actions to them<\/li>\r\n \t<li>To define your objectives, connect them with a <strong>higher objective<\/strong>, to what you expect to become (not to have)<\/li>\r\n \t<li><strong>Identify key actions to transform them into habits<\/strong>. Eat healthy\u00a0: purchase only fruits as desert. Repire deeply 3 days a day\u00a0: set up your phone alarm for this.<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Some will tell you a minimum of 21 days to anchor a new habit<\/li>\r\n \t<li>And above all, <strong>find what works for YOU<\/strong><\/li>\r\n \t<li><strong>Bring creativity, fun, build a team, give you the freedom to stop your habit whenever, challenge yourself. <\/strong><\/li>\r\n \t<li>And <strong>celebrate<\/strong>, you the multipotential who hates routine succeeded to do something important for him, then he can move to the next topic. And his self esteem (the value I give to myself) is growing.<\/li>\r\n \t<li><strong>What do you learn\u00a0? <\/strong>The small dance steps, the respect of your needs in the way you build your system, your capacity to achieve your objectives through a method that respect yourself.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n<strong>For you<\/strong>\r\nDo you need support, advice ? I propose you to contact me at <a href=\"mailto:marion@marionfontaine.coach\">contact@marionfontaine.com<\/a>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\n<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a919961 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a919961\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;ekit_has_onepagescroll_dot&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-17b85a2\" data-id=\"17b85a2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0fa9c5a elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"0fa9c5a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/kyle-glenn-kvIAk3J_A1c-unsplash-Copie-1200x800.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1014\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/kyle-glenn-kvIAk3J_A1c-unsplash-Copie-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/kyle-glenn-kvIAk3J_A1c-unsplash-Copie-scaled-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/kyle-glenn-kvIAk3J_A1c-unsplash-Copie-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/kyle-glenn-kvIAk3J_A1c-unsplash-Copie-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/kyle-glenn-kvIAk3J_A1c-unsplash-Copie-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/kyle-glenn-kvIAk3J_A1c-unsplash-Copie-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>About routine and habits From all my readings, it appears that creating new and \u00ab good \u00bb habits help achieve our objectives. Everyday is a little step to achieve result at the end of the path. It is about clarifying our objectives, establishing a status of our bad habits \u2013 or the ones not good [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-229055","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-en"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229055","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=229055"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229055\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=229055"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=229055"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/marionfontaine.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=229055"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}